Funeral Directors, Ashton On Mersey, Sale


Herbert Murray Funeral Directors is your local and genuinely independent funeral director. We believe in being at the heart of your local community and building strong everlasting relations with you and your family.

At Herbert Murray’s the passion for our service is unmistakable from the moment you walk through our doors. Immensely proud to guide your loved one on their final journey, we endeavour to provide warmth and professionalism during these challenging times. Our meticulous attention to detail ensures we're right by your side, offering guidance and unwavering support as you bid farewell.

We understand that everyone has different needs and expectations of how a funeral should be. Whether it be a celebration of your loved one’s life and achievements or a traditional Victorian service, we will be by your side helping you to say goodbye your way. We offer a dignified and bespoke service that is unique to all our families within our funeral home. We encourage you to do what is right for you and your loved ones.


Jo W.
3 months ago
Can't fault the care, support and guidance given by Steph and Robbie after the loss of our Mum. Can't thank them and the team enough.
Response from the owner:Thank you for taking the time to leave such kind words. We are truly sorry for your loss, and it’s comforting to know that we were able to support you and your family during such a difficult time. We will be sure to pass on your appreciation to the team - it means a great deal. If there is anything further we can do for you, please don’t hesitate to get in touch. Best Wishes Steph and Robbie
Chris W.
3 months ago
Steph and Robbie were fantastic from start to finish organising my Dad's funeral. Incredibly understanding, patient and genuinely interested in making the process as smooth and least stressful as possible. I cannot thank them enough for making an otherwise difficult time as manageable as possible. They explained and arranged everything from day 1 and were always on hand to chat or ask a question. Highly recommend.
Response from the owner:Thank you so much for your kind words. It truly means a lot to hear that we were able to support you during such a difficult time. We’re really pleased that the care, patience, and guidance helped make the process a little easier for you and your family. Your recommendation is greatly appreciated. Thank you again for trusting us to be part of such an important moment. Best wishes Steph and Robbie
Chris G.
4 months ago
Robbie and Steph went above and beyond our expectations. They showed care, compassion and a full understanding of what we wanted for our mum’s funeral. They arranged for a celebrant to conduct the service who was absolutely brilliant and even arranged for mum to have a blessing when she was in the chapel of rest. The flowers on mum’s coffin were later that day made into bouquets for us to keep. We can’t praise them enough for making the day perfect in every way.
Response from the owner:Thank you Chris. We truly appreciate your kind words. It was an honor to support your family and to help celebrate the life of your loved one. Your trust means so much to us during such a difficult time. Best wishes Robbie and Steph
Sharron E.
4 months ago
Can't recommend Herbert Murray enough from the moment we contacted Steph her kindness at the most devastating time. Steph and her staff were very respectful, professional, caring and empathic towards our family and we felt that Steph went over and above taking care of our beloved mum, the funeral arrangements, the service and everything else in-between. To Steph and her staff thank you so so much for everything. Absolutely Excellent Service. Sharron Ebbs
Response from the owner:Thank you so much for your incredibly kind words and for taking the time to share your experience. It truly means a great deal to the team and me to know that we were able to support you and your family during such a difficult time. Caring for your beloved mum was a privilege, and we’re so pleased that you felt supported and guided throughout the arrangements and service. Your appreciation of the kindness and the team’s professionalism, respect and empathy will mean more than you know. We always strive to go above and beyond for the families who place their trust in us, and your feedback reassures us that we are doing what matters most. On behalf of everyone at Herbert Murray, thank you again. We continue to hold you and your family in our thoughts. Best wishes Steph
Martin B.
5 months ago
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Courteous and professional from the first taking our Mum into their care. Steph is well known in the Village, but keeps everything professional, listening to our wishes and giving advice when asked. Always available to answer queries, and delivered a memorable and dignified funeral for our beloved Mum.
Response from the owner:Thank you so much for your lovely words—they truly mean a lot to me. It was an honour to look after your Mum and to support you and your family during such a difficult time. Being part of the village makes it even more important to offer a personal and caring service, while making sure everything is handled with the utmost professionalism. I’m really glad I could help guide you and be there whenever you needed reassurance or advice. Your Mum’s service was a beautiful tribute to her, and I’m grateful to have been a part of it. Thinking of you and your family and sending my warmest wishes, Steph
Martin B.
5 months ago
Excellent service throughout, from first consultstion. Courteous and professional at all times. Listened to our wishes, and gave sound advice when needed. Found them very helpful with all requests and always available to answer any question.
Response from the owner:Thank you Martin. We are truly grateful that you chose us to support you during such an important and emotional time. It means a great deal to hear that you felt listened to, supported, and cared for throughout the process. Providing courteous, professional guidance while respecting each family’s wishes is at the heart of what we do. Your feedback is sincerely appreciated, and we are honoured to have been able to assist you. Best wishes, Steph and Robbie x
John B.
5 months ago
The staff, service and the day were second to none. A beautiful celebration to our Mother, Joyce Bates. Thank you Rick and Sue
Response from the owner:Thank you so much for your kind words. It was truly an honour to support you in celebrating your mother, Joyce. We’re so pleased to hear that the staff, service and the day itself felt special and fitting for her. Wishing you and your family continued comfort in the memories you shared together. Steph and Robbie x
Catriona H.
7 months ago
The greatest accolade I can give Steph is that I now consider her to be a friend who helped create the perfect send off for my father. It was personal and very beautiful throughout. I know that my father would have been very touched.Thankyou Steph
Response from the owner:Thank you so much for your incredibly kind words. It truly meant a great deal to me to be able to help honour your father in such a personal and meaningful way. Knowing that the service felt beautiful and reflective of him, and that it brought you comfort, is the greatest compliment I could receive. I’m very grateful for your trust, and I’m touched to be considered a friend during such an important moment. Best wishes, Steph and Robbie
Hannah O.
7 months ago
I cannot thank Robbie, Steph and the rest of the team enough. After losing both my grandparents over the last 3 years, I thought it was only right to bring my lovely Dad to the same place. They took wonderful care of him, and I knew he was in good hands. They helped with everything I needed, and no question was “too random” even though I felt it was sometimes, after all I had never planned a funeral before. From visiting my dad at the chapel, everything was presented perfectly with respect and peace, and they were truly supportive. The funeral, in my opinion, could not have been a better send off for my dad- although deeply emotional it was perfect. Just what my dad would have wanted. Thank you thank you thank you to everyone at Herbert Murray, I couldn’t have done it without you.
Response from the owner:Thank you so much for taking the time to share such a heartfelt review. We are truly honoured that you entrusted us with caring for your dad, especially after the loss of your grandparents in recent years. Myself, Steph, and the entire team are deeply touched by your kind words. Supporting families through such emotional times is something we take very seriously, and we’re glad we could provide guidance, reassurance, and care when you needed it most. We’re pleased to hear that everything—from your visits at the chapel to the funeral service itself—reflected the respect, peace, and personal touch your dad deserved. Knowing that the farewell felt just right for him means a great deal to us. Thank you again for your trust and appreciation. Please accept our sincere condolences and very best wishes to you and your family. Robbie, Steph and all the team xx
Jane F.
7 months ago
We can’t thank the team at Herbert Murray, Steph in particular, enough for the kindness and support shown to our family. From start to finish, everything was handled with care, compassion, and professionalism. They took the time to explain each step, listened to our wishes and made a challenging time feel a little easier. The service was beautifully arranged and we felt truly supported throughout the whole process. We would highly recommend Herbert Murray to anyone looking for a caring and reliable funeral director.
Response from the owner:Thank you so much for your kind words and thoughtful review. We are truly grateful that you took the time to share your experience. It means a great deal to us to know that we were able to support your family with care, compassion, and professionalism during such a difficult time. We’re glad that everything was handled in a way that helped make the process a little easier for you, and that the service reflected your wishes. On behalf of everyone at Herbert Murray, thank you for your recommendation and for trusting us to care for your loved one.
Alison M.
7 months ago
I can’t speak highly enough of Steph and Robbie and indeed all the staff at Herbert Murray, helping us navigate our way through the worst time in our lives, losing Brian, our dad/grandad and for mum, her husband of 64 years. So many decisions and things to process, we couldn’t have done it without them. From the team who took dad into their care on the night he died right through to the final send off. Dad couldn’t have been in better hands, we were all looked after with such kindness and compassion and nothing was too much trouble. Thank you once again from all the family x
Response from the owner:Thank you so much for your kind and heartfelt words. We are truly honoured that you entrusted myself, Steph, and the entire Herbert Murray team to care for Brian and to support your family during such an incredibly difficult time. Losing a loved one is never easy, and we are deeply sorry for your loss. It means a great deal to know that our team was able to provide comfort, kindness, and guidance from the very beginning through to the final farewell. Your appreciation will be shared with everyone involved. Thank you again for taking the time to leave such a thoughtful review. Our thoughts remain with you and your family. Robbie, Steph and team HM
Lesley L.
8 months ago
As a family we had very little experience of planning a funeral. Our lovely Dad died and we met the loveliest people ever. Herbert Murray, for us mainly Steph stepped in and sorted everything. Robbie was there too if we wanted anything. With Steph we planned every step of the loveliest, warmest, love filled day to say farewell and celebrate our fabulous Husband/ Dad/Grandad and Great Grandad Tom. Words cannot do justice to say how wonderful they were. No question was ever silly or too small. Trust us we asked some daft ones. From the very start they were amazing, professional, kind and caring. Even now a few weeks after they are still helping us and we know they will be there for us whenever we need anything. A day that no one wants became an amazing and special day. Every person involved from the team was fabulous and so helpful. We are so very glad we chose Herbert Murray and certainly will again when needed. Thank you so much ladies, you were stars.
Response from the owner:Thank you so much for taking the time to share such a heartfelt and thoughtful review. We are truly sorry for the loss of your wonderful Dad, Tom, and it means a great deal to us that you entrusted Herbert Murray with his farewell. Myself and Robbie, are deeply touched by your kind words, as I know the team will be too. We understand how overwhelming it can feel when planning a funeral, especially during such an emotional time, and we’re honoured to have been able to guide you through each step with care, compassion, and clarity. There are never any silly questions, and we’re glad you always felt comfortable coming to us with anything. It brings us comfort to know that the day felt warm, personal, and filled with love — a true reflection of Tom and the family he cherished. Please remember that our support doesn’t end with the service; we are always here whenever you need us. Thank you again for placing your trust in us and for your incredibly kind words. It was a privilege to support you and your family. With heartfelt appreciation, Steph, Robbie and The Herbert Murray Team
Angela S.
9 months ago
I cannot recommend the services of Herbert Murray FD highly enough. We have suffered two family bereavements in the last year and on both occasions received the greatest care and compassion from Robbie and Steph. True professionals. Attention to every detail. I wouldn’t entrust the care of my loved ones to anyone else.
Response from the owner:Thank you so much for your kind and heartfelt words. We’re truly sorry for the losses you’ve experienced, and it means a great deal to know that the team here at Herbert Murray were able to provide the care and support your family needed during such difficult times. Your trust and appreciation mean everything to us. Best wishes Robbie and Steph x
Demi G.
9 months ago
I genuinely can’t thank Steph and Robbie and everyone at Herbert Murray funeral director’s enough. They all have a heart of gold and made my dad’s funeral so special. They were caring, helpful and most importantly so supportive the whole way through. Planning a funeral is not easy and I felt they held our hand the whole way through and as a family we hold a special place in our heart forever for your work. HIGHLY recommend this amazing funeral directors. Once again Thank you xxx
Response from the owner:Thank you so much for your kind and thoughtful words. It means the world to us to know that we were able to provide comfort and support to you and your family during such a difficult time. We truly care about every family we serve, and we’re deeply touched that our efforts helped make your dad’s farewell special. We’re so grateful for your trust and recommendation — it’s a privilege to have been there for you. Sending our warmest regards to you and your family. With heartfelt thanks, Steph and Robbie xx
Isaac G.
12 months ago
‘Would like to thank Robbie and Steph, Robbie came out to help us do our mum’s ashes today at Brooklands. She was amazing, lovely poem, said a lovely prayer. I can’t thank them enough; they have been amazing from the beginning. Love and care has been special and helped us through these sad times. Can’t recommend them enough! ❤️🙏xx’
Response from the owner:Thank you Isaac for your kind words, it was an absolute honour to be with you for the final journey which now allows your beautiful mum to rest in peace. It will have made your mum so happy to see you all there, to hear all the words that were said and also receive the final kisses that you all gave, a moment I will always treasure. You are a beautiful family. Thank you for trusting us with looking after your amazing mum. Much love to you all Robbie and Steph xx
Corinne H.
1 year ago
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I'm so glad that I chose Herbert Murray to take care of my mum's funeral. Steph and Robbie were so caring and helpful, but also totally professional and knowledgeable. I really liked that it is a small business and so felt very friendly and personal. Thankyou so much for making my mum's funeral such a beautiful day.
Barbara R.
1 year ago
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When my mother-in-law died we arrived at Herbert Murray Funeral Directors totally bewildered and upset with no clue what to do . Seph was fantastic and guided us through the whole process with care and compassion, giving us plenty of choices. The funeral went perfectly, all the staff were immaculate and respectful. We would recommend them to everyone.
Response from the owner:Thank you so much for your kind words during such a difficult time. It was an honor to support you and your family, and we’re grateful to have been able to help celebrate your loved one’s life with the care and respect they deserved. Please don’t hesitate to reach out if there’s anything else we can do for you.
Carol M.
1 year ago
The dedication, care, expertise and compassion shown by Steph, Robbie and the whole team was absolutely superb. Guided throughout the whole service provided that took one area of pressure and concern off our shoulders to allow us to begin to process our tremendous grief. Thank you
Response from the owner:Hi Carol, Thank you for your kind words and for taking the time to share your experience. We are honored to have been able to support you and your family during this difficult time. Your appreciation means a lot to us, and we are grateful for the trust you placed in our team. If there is anything else we can do for you, please don’t hesitate to reach out. Wishing you comfort and peace, Steph and Robbie
KATHRYN H.
1 year ago
We recently used Herbert Murray Funeral Directors and they guided us superbly through all the funeral arrangements. They were very responsive and supportive during a very difficult time. Nothing was too much trouble and they dealt with all the arrangements quietly and efficiently. Thank you Steph for your support - it was much appreciated by all the family. Highly recommended.
Response from the owner:Hi Kathryn, thank you so much fir your kind words. It was an honour to support you and your family during this difficult time. We truly appreciate your trust in us and are grateful that we could provide the care and service you needed. If there's anything we can do for you in the future, please don't hesitate to reach out. Best wishes, Steph and Robbie.
Rebecca M.
2 years ago
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We called Herbert Murray last minute when my grandma passed away, we had no plans in place and no clue what to do. Steph and Robbie were attentive, empathetic and extremely supportive. Throughout the whole process they ensured our needs as a family were met, they went above and beyond to provide excellent service and care for us all whilst we dealt with our loss, as well has having great respect for my grandma whilst she was in their care. I genuinely couldn’t recommend Herbert Murray more, they are the kindest and most professional funeral directors. Thank you for guiding us through this time.
Response from the owner:Hi Rebecca, thank you for kind words. It means a great deal to the Herbert Murray team to know that we provided the support and care your family needed. Your kind words truly mean the world to us, and we are here for continued support if you ever need us. Best wishes, Steph and Robbie
Rebecca M.
2 years ago
We called Herbert Murray last minute when my grandma passed away, we had no plans in place and no clue what to do. Steph and Robbie were attentive, empathetic and extremely supportive. Throughout the whole process they ensured our needs as a family were met, they went above and beyond to provide excellent service and care for us all whilst we dealt with our loss, as well has having great respect for my grandma whilst she was in their care. I genuinely couldn’t recommend Herbert Murray more, they are the kindest and most professional funeral directors. Thank you for guiding us through this time.
Response from the owner:Hi Rebecca, thank you for kind words. It means a great deal to the Herbert Murray team to know that we provided the support and care your family needed. Your kind words truly mean the world to us, and we are here for continued support if you ever need us. Best wishes, Steph and Robbie
Diane M.
2 years ago
I never thought about what I would have to do if I ever needed to arrange a funeral. However, I recently lost my mum. I was deverstated, clueless and extremely funerable. Herbert Murray Funeral Directors, aka Steph and Robbie, were fantastic. From my first nervous and tearful phone call right through to bringing my mum's ashes back home. They were professional, understanding, supportive and sensitive to all our family needs. I truly couldn't have given my mum her perfect send off without them. Would I use them again? Absolutely! In my experience, no one could have guided us through such a difficult time as well as they did.
Response from the owner:Hi Diane, thank you so much for your kind and thoughtful review. We truly appreciate you sharing your experience with us at such a difficult time. You and your family showed so much love for your amazing mum when arranging her final goodbye. Thank you for entrusting us with your mum’s funeral arrangements. Best wishes Steph and Robbie
Collette A.
2 years ago
From our first contact with Steph through to the funeral service itself we were touched by her kind, friendly and efficient service. Steph patiently guided us through all that needed to be done and helped us at every turn. Steph and her team made what was a difficult time much easier for us to deal with and we were very grateful for this. We would not hesitate for one moment to highly recommend Herbet Murray Funeral Directors.
Response from the owner:Hi Collette, thank you so much for kindly sharing your experience. It is such a difficult time for you all, we really do appreciate you taking the time to leave a lovely review. The service you arranged for your loved one was simply perfect and you all painted such a lovely picture of what a kind and caring person they were. It was an honour to guide you through this difficult time. Please do call in and say hi or give us a wave whenever you are passing. Best wishes, Steph and Robbie.
Geoffrey L.
2 years ago
We would like to echo the previous reviews. In the planning process and on the day of the funeral, Herbert Murray Funeral Directors were the consummate professionals. They provided dignity, understanding and compassion for our family. Despite our sadness, Robbie, Steph and their staff left us with a sense of calm and relief which goes a long way to assuage our grief. Thank you.
Response from the owner:Thank you Geoffrey for your kind words, they mean such a lot to us both. Thank you for trusting us and for allowing us to be part of such a beautiful final journey and funeral service. We feel honoured that we were at your side during such a difficult time. If you need anything at all the kettle is always on. We send you and your lovely family love and support. Much love Robbie and Steph xx
Christine W.
2 years ago
From the initial phone call right through to the funeral Robbie and Steph were amazing. Their compassion, empathy and care goes above and beyond, thank you so much for looking after our mum it meant the world to us to know she was treated with the utmost respect and dignity. Everyone commented on the service, the flowers etc and we thank you for your guidance on those difficult decisions. Mum loved AOM village, it was our final tribute to her that you took her on her final journey. Bless you both love Bob, Christine, Carol and family.
Response from the owner:Thank you so much for taking the time to write such a kind review. It was an honour to guide you and your family through such a difficult time for you all. Your mum was a special lady and the service you arranged for her was so lovely and personal. Your mum leaving for her final farewell in the village she loved must have brought you all so much comfort. Please do not hesitate to get in touch if there is anything we can help you with. Best wishes, Robbie and Steph

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As an independent and trusted local funeral director in Trafford, Herbert Murray Funeral Directors offers a comprehensive range of funeral services tailored to the specific needs of the Trafford community. Serving the broader surrounding locality, our expertise encompasses areas such as Sale, Ashton Upon Mersey, Partington, Timperley, Altrincham, Urmston, Stretford, and Sale Moor. With our deep-rooted commitment to the community, we stand as a beacon of support, guiding families through their toughest times with professionalism and a personalised touch, cementing our reputation as Trafford's best loved independent funeral service provider.

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